Being mean, selfish, self centered, egoistical are words that we use for others and not for our own selves.
But where’s the harm in being self occupied or being a loner if I may say so as long as we are not hurting anybody else?
These are just words that we use to describe somebody else, and that’s unfair and unjust.
I myself do not socialize too much and find myself busy with my own work or occupations mostly, but I do like to care or write for meditation and environmental issues and that’s good enough for me I think.
I ask others also to take time off regularly from any schedule you may have and put in some efforts for contemplation, introspection, muse and daydreaming for your good self and aims and goals of your own life, whatever they may be.